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The Moment I Knew I Was Done
"If you were a kid, would you look up to you?" At that moment, I started crying in a room full of grown men I'd known for a day and a...
Dave Chapman
Oct 24, 20232 min read
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Abstinence, Harm Reduction, and the Sober Curious
Let me start this by saying that when it comes to alcohol, I practice, and MUST practice, 100% abstinence. If you've read the blog post,...
Dave Chapman
Oct 17, 20235 min read
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Self-Care
As you would imagine, most of the training to become a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach (CARC) is about how to help our clients, how to...
Dave Chapman
Oct 5, 20234 min read
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Heroes
There are a lot of things about my time after I'd crossed the line from heavy drinker to person with Substance Use Disorder, but was...
Dave Chapman
Sep 26, 20237 min read
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I'm Back!
Yeah, I know. The pic! Comparing myself to the Terminator, even the version when Arnold was getting a little long in the tooth for...
Dave Chapman
Sep 18, 20233 min read
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Holidays (The Bermuda Triangle)
For most of us, the holiday season is a time for celebration. We gather with family and friends. We attend big holiday parties thrown by...
Dave Chapman
Dec 15, 20216 min read
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Safety
Today there was a HUGE announcement regarding recovery in this country. New York City's Mayor, Bill de Blasio, announced that NYC has...
Dave Chapman
Dec 1, 20215 min read
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Gratitude
"A grateful alcoholic will never drink again." -- Unattributed If you spend time around 12-step programs, you will inevitably hear the...
Dave Chapman
Nov 25, 20213 min read
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Fun!
So, this is my first post in quite a while. Sorry for the break, but the title says it all . . . I finished my summer (and early fall, I...
Dave Chapman
Nov 8, 20213 min read
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Arrogance (Pride and Ego, Part 2)
As I was writing my last post, Confidence, I realized it was essential to make clear the difference between confidence and arrogance. I...
Dave Chapman
Jun 23, 20214 min read
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Confidence
In my "past life," I was a successful businessman -- a solid, strategic, advertising executive. I never shied away from a challenge, and...
Dave Chapman
May 31, 20213 min read
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Stigma
The other night my wife and I were at an event. I was in a conversation with a friend. She showed me her nearly empty glass and said,...
Dave Chapman
May 18, 20213 min read
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Wise Words From A Knight
I will on occasion use this space to share writing by others that I find worth sharing. This post is one of those. Sir Anthony Hopkins...
Dave Chapman
May 12, 20213 min read
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Pride and Ego
I have said many times that my two biggest issues are not admitting my flaws and not asking for help. Of course, those are just...
Dave Chapman
May 5, 20212 min read
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Playing The Tape Forward
Regardless of your path to recovery, "playing the tape forward" can be a very effective tool in managing against cravings (urges) or even...
Dave Chapman
Apr 30, 20212 min read
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